Why you don’t have to be “That Girl”


So imagine this. You are in your late teens/early twenties and you have a little bit of time to yourself. You may not know it, but you really do value this time. However you don’t have the energy or motivation to go for a walk, pick up a book or paint. Instead, the easiest thingContinue reading “Why you don’t have to be “That Girl””

Rainbow Capitalism


Each month seems to resemble something doesn’t it. It is no longer just Christmas that gets spoken about, often more than three months leading up to december, while now it is not even enough that mothers day, Halloween and Valentines day are hugely celebrated, or rather commercialized. Instead, as many of you are aware, thereContinue reading “Rainbow Capitalism”

My Problem with Childrens Clothing


I am sure we have all seen slightly “grown up” children’s clothing. While it may seem rather inappropriate, it is also true that the market is only going to respond to what parents want. Nonetheless no one is going to want their children to be badly sexualised, therefore why does it happen so often?

Toxic Positivity


Heard about what we know as positivity? You know, good vibes only and all that lark. Hang on, isn’t that toxic positivity? Could well be. It can include quotes, books and tips and of course it is not going to be good for anyone’s mental health…

Can you Be Gay if Ya Look Straight?


Often being part of the LGBT+ community can be associated with looking a certain way, acting a certain way. Or really being part of a particular culture.
But what is it about gay culture, including its history, which makes it so special and relevant today?

Is Cottage Core Racist


Lets face it, last year was hell. Therefore how many of us at one point didn’t want to run away to a place far away. Where we could live a far more simplified life???

Can a Boob Job Ever Be Justified?


Many for one reason or another seem to have views strongly against any kind of plastic surgery, especially boob jobs. However when are such high, toxic beauty standards in society, then should we really exercise the judgement that we do. Though we do need to prioritize self love too

Mystery Blogger Award


Mystery Blogger award, get to know me more and see some great blogggers 🙂

Has Being “Alternative” Become More Expensive


Has being part of a counterculture, or a subculture become more expensive, and has this led to many members feeling left out.
Or is alternative still pretty inclusive, despite the recent commercialization, and the rise of the E-Girl and E-Boy?

Free Speech vs Cancel Culture: Why not Listen?


Cancel Culture has dominated a lot off the media lately. Yet in spite off a lot off the crap which has been cancelled, there are many people who still advocate for freedom off speech. And while I would say that freedom of speech shouldn’t equate to freedom to saying something which could hurt someone, people do need to be educated.