Unrealistic Expectations in Relationships and Sex


This post is all about unrealistic expectations in relationships and sex. This especially concerns the impact of this on Gen Z and teenagers, who spend considerable periods of time on social media, and who are more gullible to being influenced by films and TV. I will also explain the root cause for why so many people have unrealistically high expectations, and I will talk about steps that can be taken to improve the situation.

Trauma Core


Hello, so before I begin, I am just going to warn you all that this post is going to mention topics which may be triggering to some readers. These includes topics relating to childhood trauma and mental illness. Now while I am not going to go into depth, if you are likely to find content relating toContinue reading “Trauma Core”

Is Woke Culture as bad as we think it is?


Right, so I am going to begin this post in a slightly different way by apologising for the fact that some of the research for this post has come from sources with, shall I say, views of a slightly different political slant to my own. And I would think different to a lot of youContinue reading “Is Woke Culture as bad as we think it is?”

Flex Culture


Flex Culture is odd? Who would want to flex their wealth? But without necessarily realising, all of us have the tendency to flex what we have in life. Therefore lets have a deeper look into flex culture, and attempt to explain why this may be apparent.

Zoom Fatigue and Burnout


Zoom fatigue is something we tend to joke about, but having to adapt to facing the pressure of looking decent, and paying constant attention in front of a camera can be pretty exhausting. Not to mention the other anxieties we are all facing concerning covid, the lockdown and isolation. Therefore it is not too surprising that many of us are facing burnout…

Bimbofication: What Would Cause a Woman to Become a Bimbo?


We may have heard a lot about Bimbos, and Bimbofication recently. From Taylor swift’s Bimbofication, to that of Harry Styles. Now there’s a whole new aged movement, fueled by Gen Z, on TikTok. But A) what’s the definition for Bimbo or Bimbofication, and B) What is the point of this whole, political, new aged Bimbo movement on TikTok and elsewhere?

Toxic Positivity


Heard about what we know as positivity? You know, good vibes only and all that lark. Hang on, isn’t that toxic positivity? Could well be. It can include quotes, books and tips and of course it is not going to be good for anyone’s mental health…

Internet Escapism


It is not too surprising that escapism is going to be on the rise, and I expect we are all too aware of the dangers of gambling, addiction and other escapist behaviors. But have you thought about how this may look on the internet; from something as innocent to animal crossing to online gambling sites, maybe we ought to be more aware of the dangers…

Is Cottage Core Racist


Lets face it, last year was hell. Therefore how many of us at one point didn’t want to run away to a place far away. Where we could live a far more simplified life???